Why Preparation and Post Integration Sessions Are Essential for a Safe and Empowering Darkness Retreat
- Alison McAulay
- Nov 19, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: 18 hours ago
Darkness retreats are becoming increasingly sought after by those seeking profound transformation, deep inner stillness, and expanded consciousness. The promise of unplugging from the external world to dive into one’s internal landscape, free from visual distraction and endless to-do lists, is something people are yearning for right now.
Most of us have never spent multiple days in absolute darkness. The autonomic nervous system is designed to adapt to the environment around us constantly. Imagine what unfolds when our brains and bodies are deprived of light, constant movement, sound, and information for 72 hours or more.
What remains?
Just you: your body, your breath, your senses; the ebb and flow of thoughts, memories, emotions, visions, perceptions; and the ever-shifting states of being that arise as your nervous system gradually descends into deeper states of stillness.
This profound, transformational experience can unfold smoothly for some and feel far more challenging for others. So much depends on one’s history of past adverse experiences, current stress load, personal challenges, and the depth of practice one has in cultivating mind–body awareness and stillness.
These are precisely some of the reasons why preparation and post-integration sessions with an experienced somatic therapist - someone skilled in autonomic nervous system mastery- are not merely helpful; they are essential.
The Nervous System Holds the Key to Altered States
In total darkness, our usual anchors of light, space, and time are altered. In this sensory silence, the nervous system has the potential to settle so deeply, which allows us to shift out of hypervigilance and into altered states of consciousness: deep meditative awareness, visions, and expansive stillness. Individuals may also transcend into states of unification, oneness, and fractal awareness for prolonged periods of time. Some call these moments of being, enlightenment.
Alternatively, it’s also completely natural to move through states of fight, flight, freeze, panic, or dissociation as the system navigates unfamiliar and unprocessed dark terrain. This is why working with a somatic therapist before entering darkness is essential—and why the retreat center must have a clear, safe, and trauma-informed protocol to support activated, dysregulated states.
In my preparation sessions, we explore all of this together so each person enters the dark feeling safe, confident, and empowered to titrate their dark experience, whether there is a facilitator at the retreat or not. Without the right tools and awareness, these states can overwhelm rather than transform. With them, the dark becomes a safe container to trust and fully let go.
Why a Preparation Session Is Crucial
Before entering the darkness, it's vital to establish a connection to your body and a familiarity with how your nervous system responds to stress and stillness. A preparation session with a somatic therapist trained in trauma-informed care can help you:
Recognize your CNS baseline: How does safety feel in your body? What does it feel like when you are dysregulated?
Identify F states +: Do you tend to go into fight, flee, freeze, collapse, or dissociate when triggered?
Practice somatic regulation tools: Breath work, visualization, tracking, etc.
Establish intention: What is calling you into the darkness?
Why a Post Integration Session Is Crucial: Embodying & Sustaining your new insights and feelings
Some people say the real work begins after the dark retreat ends.
Coming back into the world with a well-resourced nervous system that’s still rewiring, with spiritual insights, a malleable neural, network and new embodied awareness, can be a lot to navigate. You may see yourself, your relationships, and life from a completely different perspective. You may have new clarity of what is meaningful to you and what you truly value in your life. You may feel a renewed sense of purpose and direction, and now it's time to integrate and implement your experience into day-to-day life.
A post-integration session with a somatic therapist or coach allows you to:
Verbalize your internal experience, which helps solidify and give meaning to the ineffable.
Embody a new way of being and relating
Be witnessed in your transformation, a powerful form of attunement, mirroring, and affirmation.
Receive questions that deepen your insight.
Continue somatic integration through movement, breath, and presence-based practices.
Ground your insights into actionable new steps and choices for your life.
Without integration, even profound revelations can evaporate into memory. With the right support, they become wisdom in motion.
Becoming the Vessel for Your Own Transformation
When you step into darkness, you are choosing to become the vessel for something vast—a container for healing, revelation, dissolution, and renewal.
The more resourced your nervous system is before the retreat, and the more support you have in integrating afterward, the deeper, safer, and more transformational your experience may be.
A darkness retreat is not a shortcut to enlightenment. There is no such thing. It's a courageous invitation for your consciousness to feel, sense, and see with profound honesty and clarity. With an open mind and heart, perception can shift, meaning can surface, and purpose can crystallize. With the right preparation, somatic tools, and integration support, you can enter your next darkness retreat with resource, confidence, and ease.
In darkness, your mind slows down
In darkness, your body awakens
In darkness, your identity fades
In darkness, your soul speaks
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